Awful? Says whom?
I chose and keep my woman. Don’t you?
Plain wrong? How do you know? Why?
Community? Which community?
Don’t deserve? Who has the right to decide?
Disgrace? Sorry to disappoint, but I do not live my/our life for somebody else.
Anon is so full of false assumptions that he/she cannot piece together any coherent thoughts. He/she is endemically narcissistic, not able to see anything outside him/herself. When a small man/woman (like Anon) tries to sort right from wrong judging from ones own limited experience, the result is devastating!