Some have asked, but if you do not get hang up about it, it is not all that difficult, even answering prople that have no understanding of this lifestyle.
– Why she wears crude jewelry?
– We like the strict esthetics of it
– Why she wears metal bracelets?
– My way of showing that I care, symbolizing the strength of our relation.
– What kind of ring is that?
– One that shows she belongs to me.
Etc. Strict, pure, strong, authentic (even cute). No compromises or lies necessary.