Seems abusive. Can we hear from the woman in your life to make sure she is safe. Other wise authorities can easily be involved

Woman in question here. I can assure you Sir (?) that there is no need to be worried about my safety. As a woman I have a strong need of being put in my place, being fully controlled, guided and led, and I guess what you would call abused. I think most women have these needs, some just trying to hide them or dismiss them more than others. I have a constant need of going even further down, into a deeper and harder place. Maybe you know some authorities that can help with that?