Which laws are you referring to? Who writes your laws? No, I would not allow her to live any life that I do not decide. she is a full mother as it is now (and a better and more full mother than any I ever seen). I may love her (depending on what meaning you load that word with), but more importantly, I Own her, care for her, and is responsible for her. Indeed I care for her mental health (which is robust), and the only reason I would be concerned for it is if I allowed her to live in any other way. Anon lives in a very different world than we do.