We are in the mid 30s and mid 50s respectively. He has considerably more experience than the slave, but she has had a brief but intense journey too….. she has No Right to her own time, privacy, hidden thoughts or seeing family and friends (she has no rights. Period.). But she may be allowed to see family and friends when and if her Owner think it is good for her, and if He does not use her/need her services right there and then. On average, she may be allowed some 2-3 phone calls a week, and one longer meeting with friends or family per month.